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Patrick Loera: And then I
just, I just kept moving.
You know, I've used that
that was my fuel to get up
every mind to keep going.
And then when it
started to hurt, I would
say, you know what?
This is nothing compared to
what she had to go through.
Brea Avalos: He's always
been our biggest cheerleader.
Like he's always somebody who's
like, he's like our coach.
He'll like be like encouraging
us, pushing us all the time.
And it's always in this
like, just smiley way.
Like, Hey, I think
you could do it.
Nando Gonzales: But once you
start building that community
and your accountability buddies,
whether it be Coach "B",
Becky throughout the years,
I had different ones as well.
That's what kept me, kept
me going, kept me motivated.
Kevin Chang: Hello and welcome
to the RaceMob podcast.
This is episode number 72.
I'm Kevin entrepreneur
technology and fitness nerd.
And I'm joined by the
head coach of RaceMob
and master motivator, the
incomparable Bertrand Newson.
Gabriel Caetano: Hello,
there RaceMob crew.
My name is Gabriel
Caetano, my pronouns are
they/them, I am from Brazil.
And this is why I am
here with you in the
Latin X Heritage Month.
At the start of the month.
Kevin and Bertrand just
had this amazing idea of
going back to all of our.
Latina guests.
And picking up some of
their best moments from
each episode, right.
And they figured, you know
what, Gabriel you're from
Brazil, you arre Latine to.
And why don't you?
Why don't you take
the lead on this one?
And they says, yeah.
Okay.
Sure.
And here we are.
What you're going to listen to
in this episode is what I think
are some of the best moments
from all of the episodes across
the RaceMob Podcast in which
we hosted Latine guests, and
I'm going to be talking a
little bit about each moment.
And why I chose that moment,
why that was significant for me.
And I hope that you enjoy
this special episode.
And the other, like to
think Kevin and Coach
"B" for being here.
And if you like this episode,
please let us know, share
it in your social media,
leave a comment, leave a
rating, leave a review.
And also, since I am the audio
producer, if there's anything
that you like or that you don't
about the order quality across
the show, please let me know and
I'll do my best to improve it.
And here is the first
moment that I chose for
this special episode.
So I quite relate with Becky
Hernandez in this interview
because, struggling with the
oppression and the struggling
with not being able to get.
Up from the couch to do
the things that you got to
do is a very real struggle
for a lot of people.
There's that.
And there's also.
Dealing with.
Big problems that just
drag it down and all of
that is it just shakes you
up in a really bad way.
So.
That's why I like this.
So that's why I like this
interview and especially this
section of her conversation,
especially when she talks about
how you're just supposed to have
fun with whatever you're doing.
Whatever the you're
trying to achieve, fine.
But just go out and have
fun while you're at it.
Kevin Chang: I want to get
back to this this thought
about, you know, not feeling
like going outside, feeling
like, you know, keeping
to the treadmill keeping.
Cause I think that a lot of
people maybe feel that way of.
In the, my comfort zone,
maybe I don't want to step
out of my comfort zone and
maybe they're stuck in a rut
for, for a very long time.
I guess, what was it that,
that got you out of that
comfort zone to, you know,
find this new world of, you
know, running outdoors or
meeting other people, or,
Becky Hernandez: I would have
to say something, I was going
through a divorce, so I was
wanting to escape, I guess,
you know, feel something
different since my, that was
something that was just so
disruptive in my personal life.
And so I use.
I said, okay, well,
I need a distraction.
I need something to just
take my mind off of that.
Something that was mine and
not, not anything to do with
you know, what was going on
in my personal life at the
time I was you know, I had,
my son was two and a half and
my daughter was a newborn.
So going through that you
know, it, it working divorce.
And so that training for a half
marathon setting that goal for
myself was something like, okay,
that's, that's my that's me.
I can do that.
And.
Oh, I got to go outside.
And so that pushed me
because I wanted to feel
something different.
I wanted to feel you know,
something that was mine and,
and nobody could take that away.
So I joined San
Jose fit, actually.
That's my first, you know,
I guess if I go look back,
that was my first running
group that I joined and that
was for a year just to train
for the half or half for
the season, for the season.
And in fact, that's where
I met initially meant one
of our teammates, Nicole of
our now I believe that's
Nicole Shahada, Darnell.
She's she connected with
two legit earlier this
year, and it's funny cause
I'm like, you were my
running coach back in 2005.
So was just small circle.
Just show goes to show you
how small this community of
runners you know, it's a small
world but that's how I, I
wanted I that got me out there.
And then when I realized, gosh,
San Jose fit has all every,
every, from the fast runners to
the walkers and all shapes and
sizes and I didn't feel alone.
I didn't feel like I was
going to be singled out.
I didn't feel like like
it was an imposter.
I think that was it.
I was fighting
imposter syndrome.
Like you're not a real runner,
you know, you're not so but
yeah, so that, that really
helped me get out of my
comfort zone and run outside.
Bertrand Newson: And Becky,
was it the half marathon?
That was your first distance
that you were training for?
Were there other races
leading up to that in
your running journey?
Becky Hernandez: So my
first ever like I'm going
to pay to run was the
Mercury News 10 K and 1999.
That was my.
Yeah.
And then after I think only
did like maybe a couple
of 10 Ks no long distance
and nothing beyond that.
10 K was my max.
I ran one when I was 18 weeks
pregnant with my daughter.
I think that was the last
mercury news race, like thing.
So, you know, that was my
last was, I had to do two
to 10 Ks and I think I
did a 5k and that was it.
I didn't race.
I didn't run races until 2005, I
think when I did my first half.
So there was a few years there
where I was just, but I had
little kids, so I couldn't
see, you know, it wasn't, it
wasn't important at that point.
I was like, oh, you know, when
it comes, when that time comes.
And so it did in to that.
Kevin Chang: And that's pretty
incredible to jump right
into a 10 K you didn't, you
didn't do the 5k first or the,
Becky Hernandez: I didn't know.
I didn't know any better, you
know, it's like, I think I'm
trying to remember what I wore.
I think more like a
cotton t-shirt some,
like, I don't know.
It was probably some like
leggings that weren't
breathable and some like
worn, like aerobic shoes.
Like I'm like, I'm ready to run
Bertrand Newson: leggings.
I mean, I haven't wore leggings,
but I totally get you in it.
Everything else.
So,
Becky Hernandez: yeah.
I mean, I didn't know, like
what time do I go there?
Where do I sign up?
Where do I go?
You know, the bathrooms.
And like, I just, I remember
just being kind of in awe
scared, but at the same time,
like, wow, this is pretty cool.
I really liked it.
Kevin Chang: Was weight loss,
a big focus early on, or was
it something that just kind
of naturally happened because
you were having fun or, I
mean, walk us through it.
Becky Hernandez: Sure.
So like I said, I had a a
office mate who was always,
you know, try and crazy
diets, like Rollie, gonna
eat pineapple and bananas.
I'm like, well, how's
that going to help us?
We're going to start.
That's why we're
going to lose weight.
So, you know, that kind of
thing until finally, you know,
but her idea of joining a.
I, it, it was as
much as it was scary.
I, I was okay with that
because I had been a member of
the YMCA during high school.
So I was familiar with the Y
and I would have to say that
the selecting the why was
the perfect choice for me.
Because I, I think that
was a safe environment.
It was a very
nurturing environment.
And I, it was a small
environment, so I wasn't like,
you know, I felt like if I
were to go into a huge class
with, you know, thousands of,
you know, 30, 40, 50 people,
I think I would have just
like, no, this isn't for me.
The classes were small.
And I had fun, I think when
people ask, like, you know,
now, now, okay, so today I am
a group exercise instructor.
I got certified because I just
enjoyed what that journey and
what I was able to receive from
it and what I gained from it.
And I'm like, I want to
be able to give that back
if just, even if it's
one person that I impact.
I mean, because I have
so many people that
think in my journey but.
Having fun.
And because people always ask
me, well, what should I do?
I want to lose weight or I, you
know, this is not necessarily,
you got to pick something,
that's it that you're just
going to want to go back to,
even if it's hard, even if
it's like you're in the middle
of the classroom, gasping
for air, because it's tough.
But at the end you're
smiling, that's it?
So it could be, it could
be weight, you know,
it could be this class.
It could be that class, it could
be running, it could be walking.
It could be, you know,
swimming, bicycling.
I don't like when people
say, well, that exercise or
they criticize a workout or
type of workout because it's
like, everyone's different.
So it's, it's picking
what works for you.
And, and it's the consistency
at the end of the day.
Gabriel Caetano: Now I
really like this conversation
with Nando Gonzalez about
his journey to finding
strength in community.
And not only strength, but
enjoyment and happiness and just
a whole new approach to running.
And so this interview also
has none though talking
about pacing and I really
urge you to check it out.
It's a cool story.
It's really cool to hear
him talking about what
he learned from it and
what it means to him.
Anyways, without further
ado, let's listen to the
bit that I selected for you.
Kevin Chang: Talk
to us about Taji.
Did you introduce
it to Bertrand?
Is that how that went or did
you guys kind of learn about it?
Nando Gonzales: No, it was
the other way around your
Bertrand was already part of it.
Like I said, gentleman,
by the name of Marco
had told me about it.
Cause I was in the
Marines with him.
I was connected to
him through Facebook.
So he just kind of gave
me the link, told me
about, Hey, check it out.
You know, it's for
veterans, it's a hundred
miles in February, which.
Seemed like a huge
feat at the time.
And it still is, but just
knowing everything that was
behind it and what they were
about, drove me to it and, you
know, made me challenge myself
and go for it that first year.
And I believe this year going on
my ninth year now, consecutively
Kevin Chang: As a veteran,
can you reflect on what
the first experience meant
to you, what that Taji
experience has meant to you?
Nando Gonzales: It was just
what the organization stood for
giving back to the veterans.
And at that point, uh, they
were partnered with the
wounded warrior project, which
I had heard of, and I knew
they did good things as well.
So I signed up and I believe
I got a couple of people
to sign up that year.
But every year after that, I
constantly reached, you know,
a wider and wider net, you
know, casting out, trying to
get more and more people in.
And they also gravitated to
it because they got referred
to it by me, who they
know was in the military.
So it just that's what
brought them in as well.
And then I knew it was
gonna be a struggle.
I knew it was gonna be hard,
but that's kind of the mindset
you have going into it is.
To challenge yourself and
then being in the military,
you kind of get used to
those, you know, those, those
mental roadblocks and having
to overcome challenges and,
you know, getting over it.
So that kind of drew me
to it and went forward.
And from that point, you know,
I was still in contact with
Bertrand, you know, and I'd
give them ideas and tips and
things that I've thought about,
Hey, what if we tweak this or
change the wording on this?
And that's what that kind of.
Transition and to being part
of the board came in, you know,
cause I was constantly, you
know, giving my feedback, not
nitpicking or anything, but
just like, Hey, let's try this.
Let's word it this way.
What do you think about this?
And it, you know, he'd
reached back out like,
Hey, we're thinking of
this local type of deal.
What tweaks would you make?
And I would just
constantly give the input.
I felt gravitate to the event,
you know, I wasn't quote unquote
part of it on the back end,
but I love the event so much.
I went to contribute as
much as I could on the back
end to make it better and
better every year as well.
Even though at that point
I was just a participant.
Bertrand Newson: And look
at, Taji now sold out for
2021, coming off a year, we
gave nearly $75,000 to team.
RWB our parent
charity organization.
We're going to top that.
And a lot of that has to do
with your support, your vision,
your energy, and being a voice
for other participants as well.
Kevin Chang: Have
you met others?
During the Taji journey.
And like what types
of stories do you have
from those experiences?
Nando Gonzales: I've met anybody
that I didn't already know.
You know, a lot of the big group
comes from the fitness family
who I've known from that point.
And then also the people
that I've recruited from it.
So I wouldn't be able to say
that I've met somebody brand
new that I didn't already know
kind of going into it, but it
was a great sense of community.
Knowing that you got to go
out and get some miles in and
someone random is going to see
your shirt and kind of just be
like, Hey, you're doing it too.
Or, you know, or ask you
about it, you know, Hey,
what's that shirt, you know,
when we go out and do these
run local events, you know,
we'll, we'll come deep.
Well, everybody's gonna wear
their Taji shirts, especially
if it's coming February and
everybody you're running by
is asking like, who are you
guys with the same shirts
on, what is this event?
What is it, you know, can
you tell me more about it?
So again, that adds to
the community as well.
Kevin Chang: How about
transformational stories?
From people that you did
know, people that you brought
in, any of them stick out
Nando Gonzales: A
handful of them.
I wouldn't say that I brought in
on my own, you know, one right
off the bat that comes to mind.
Judge Dora, huge transformation,
you know, amazing, you know,
before and after photos
of her just getting out
there, getting after it.
There was one of
your, my dad did it.
That was great.
You know, get getting
my parents involved.
My mom did it as well, and
they kind of had a little
rivalry against each other.
See, who's going to log the
most miles, which is great.
And apparently this year I
got another cousin of mine.
Who's getting into his
weight loss journey as well.
And I told him it's addicting.
You know, it's a great event.
And it's weird how much
you look forward to it.
I mean, you almost start feeding
and trying to find hours of the
day and checking your schedule.
I don't know.
I can get another
walk-in at this point.
I can get a run at this
point, found asleep.
I could probably get one late
night and it just snowballs
and just constantly looking
for that free time to go out
and get some more miles in.
So right now, yeah, my, my
cousin out in Gillware right.
And I was really
getting it done.
So I was super proud of him.
Kevin Chang: Talk to
us a little bit about.
When did your mindset shift
around running in general?
Like you've mentioned the first
year, it was all about goal.
It was all about
that half marathon.
It was all about
reaching that goal.
Maybe even the second year
it was something similar.
Like I'm going to reach this
goal, I'm running for a purpose,
I'm running to hit something.
At some point.
I'm assuming that the mind
shift changed where you
enjoyed running, that you
enjoyed your time out there.
That it wasn't so much
just about hitting goals,
but it was more about.
Getting some time to
go out and running.
When do you think that happened?
Nando Gonzales: Later on when
I'm very honest with myself.
I will flake on myself
every single time.
If I'm not meeting
somebody out there, I will
have great intentions.
I'll set the alarm, I'll get the
clothes out, I'll get the shoes
out, I'll lay everything out.
And then I just won't go.
Like, I'll, I'll get snooze
button and I go back to sleep
and I will flake on myself, you
know, every day of the week.
But once you start building
that community and your
accountability buddies,
whether it be Coach "B",
Becky throughout the years,
I had different ones as well.
That's what kept me, kept
me going, kept me motivated.
And like I said, once I seen
that weight loss come off, I
knew that running is important.
Ryan's good for your health.
It's going to keep you in
shape or at least get you
in shape or get you going.
So I knew at that point that
yes, just reach out to somebody,
have them hold me accountable.
I hold them accountable,
work together as a team.
And it made running
a lot more enjoyable.
You know, I'm not out there,
there alone trying to entertain
myself, listening to music.
You're actually having a
personal conversation catching
up on the week, talking
about whether it be sports
and the time just flies by,
you know, before you know
it, five hours is done.
You got your mile, you're
running in for the day, half
the day goes by and you almost
forgot that you ran that
morning because we're running
so early in the morning.
That's where everything changed.
It has been able to run
with people in that sense
of community and, and hold
each other accountable.
I really like that.
And that's what's best currently
was keeping me going as well.
You know, if it wasn't for
my accountability buddies,
I would have zero miles
Gabriel Caetano: This interview
with Adam Duran was really
interesting to me in many ways.
But the section I wanted
to highlight here was.
his, , involvement with.
, community work.
Okay.
So you'll probably have
noticed by now that I,
tend to like best stories
revolving around community
and, , Family and stuff.
You know, it's, it's
just really cool.
It's just really interesting.
And with Adam's background
and everything, like, look,
if you haven't had a chance
to listen to this one episode,
like I urge you to just stop
everything you're doing, stop
listening to this right now
and just like go there and
listen to it because it is
one of the most interesting.
Interviews we've had so
far, that's my opinion.
Kevin Chang: Talk to us about,
, some of the projects, , how
you continue to stay involved.
Adam Duran: I was
living in Tracy.
I spoke several times
to the high schools.
Um, I'd go into like assemblies
and, uh, how do I get there?
I just showed up.
I said, Hey, my name is Andrew.
I, at the time I was a
deputy, I'm a deputy.
And I just, uh, you know, I
have this energy and I want
to just tell the students
that they can do it too.
And I want to just so
I, we ended up in job
fairs and I can't like,
I can't believe I got in.
So they let me in and by doula
security a certain, you know,
make sure I w I was legit.
Right.
And, uh, I was just, I guess I
would just show up and say, this
is me, and this is what I do.
And, uh, I just want to
try to help the students
and like, And I would
get a little presentation
initially to the personnel,
to the administration.
And they said, okay, we want
to let you in our school.
And then I did that.
I actually also worked for the
city council of Tracy and on
a commission, so on trails and
roadways and, and the bus as I
began to do that for a couple
of years on the commission
for the city council, and
then also in San Jose for the
last 10 years, I'm involved
with a program called the
Latino role model conference.
It's in East San
Jose . High school.
Once a year, we have it.
We've had up to 500 kids there
at one time in assemblies.
We take them in, we have
judges, we have, um, we have
a lot of police officers,
we have engineers, we have
doctors, we have all these
people that look like them
that are in jobs where they
probably, a lot of them don't
have families that are in it.
And so we want to show them
that they can do it too.
So we do that once a year.
And we've given back for
10 years and we give prizes
away like San Jose state,
uh, hats and, and people that
are from different colleges
for Santa Clara university
of course, San Jose state
and maybe Yale or UCLA.
And I know my good buddy,
uh, Juan as from UCLA.
So we give, we give them like
things for the school t-shirts
and hats and stuff like that.
And we get prizes away and
we have like gift cards.
So we do that for the kids.
We are here in the community.
It's all about the community.
It's all about pushing and
equipping, uh, mentoring and
coaching the next generation.
We want the next generation to
do more than what we've done.
So that's what I've
been involved with the
last several years.
And I guess in the reentry
center, I did that for
several years and talking
with the former inmates
and , and anywhere from a
hundred to 150, clients.
Former inmates that come
in , that were lifers that
done 30, 40 years in prison.
Well, and they were told by the
parole officer to report because
they're from this County,
they've come from on a bus.
They'd literally sleep
outside the reentry center
because they'd been in
prison for 40 years.
They got nowhere to go.
Their families are gone.
And so they'd get
there and yeah.
They'd be there all day for
like a week straight and
medical services and like
psychiatric services, general
assistance, agentic, GA
clothing, we're helping with
housing, tattoo removal and
all these different things.
So, I, I helped open up that
building and I think 2011 or
12, , it's like a beacon in
downtown San Jose, , where,
, we give people an opportunity
to, , a second chance.
Kevin Chang: It's incredible.
, you say , you're showing up and
they're just inviting you in.
But I think the energy that
you bring it's palpable.
I mean, the excitement as
Coach, B said caffeine for
the years, you're probably
bringing that energy and they're
like, Whoa, who is this guy?
Yes.
Kenny motivate our students.
Yes.
I mean, he can, he, can he show
people down the right path?
Absolutely.
And so, , you know, that's
kudos to you for having built
this life through discipline,
through, , calendaring things
through routine, through reading
and, and, , embracing the
mindset and also just enriching
your mind on a daily basis.
I mean, I think it goes a
long, long way to then being
able to pay that forward.
You know, showing kids
that may look like you have
similar backgrounds to you.
And be able to show them that
there is future for them, you
know, that there are different
avenues for them to go down.
So, I mean, I think it's,
it's giant kudos to you,
the life that you live and
being able to pass it forward
to the next generation.
I think that's incredible.
Adam Duran: I just want to
say that, I'm reading this
book, called the greatest
secret , it's based on it's
same Rhonda Byrne, who did the
secret back in 2006 , but this
last one was called the greatest
secret and it's not just
kind of Blab it and grab it.
You just think it, and
it's going to be common.
It comes with work.
You've got to put it to work.
That that's something
that no one can give you.
And I gotta say we're when I,
I got two years to get the job.
Um, I never gave up on the job.
It took me two years of
just calling all the time.
Believe me.
Um, they all knew me at
personnel and they were okay,
Adam, it was still in a hiring
freeze, but they would kind
of almost get rid of me up.
Can you call back in six weeks?
I put on my calendar
of six weeks later to
the day I'd call back.
And if they told me three
months, three months to the day
90 days, I'd be calling back.
So I never gave up on it, just
like it didn't with Boston.
And then when I finally got
the job, I started to set
a plan and then after many
years I, um, cause I kind of
didn't think I could do it.
I was just happy to have a
job, to be honest with you.
One job.
And I did that for many years,
after many, many years, I
said, you know what, I'm gonna
put in for Sergeant I put in
for Sergeant, um, studied,
um, and I didn't get it.
And then I get competitive.
I said, Oh no, Oh, this
is not going to happen.
I stayed for two years.
When I didn't get it.
And I thought, okay, it
was because the math,
I wasn't good at math.
So what I did is I, I hired
three different tutors, uh,
one the Khan Academy, two my
neighbor and three, one of
the guys that work with me.
I had three different
tutors to make sure that
I will never fail again.
Not that test.
That's never gonna happen again.
So two years of
studying, I got it.
And then after four years, uh,
I put in for again for another
promotion, I didn't get it.
And I said, Oh no.
Oh, this isn't it.
Okay.
I studied for a year.
Solid.
In fact, I put off.
All my marathons
and half marathons.
I did no races.
I in fact, I didn't read
any other books, but the
material I had, um, uh, court
cases and stuff like that, I
studied for one entire year.
And that next time I got
it, um, my point being
is it doesn't come.
No one gives it to you.
You actually have to work at it.
But if you work at it, I
can guarantee you one thing,
one, you're going to feel
better about yourself.
And two, you they're going to
get it or come Whitey close
to getting it, or you're
going to go above it, but you
will be proud of yourself.
It's going to build
your confidence and your
self-esteem and then your
associations will change.
And then your life will change.
And I guarantee you that, and
you're going to come back and
say, Adam, you were right.
Cause I'm a hundred percent.
Right.
I know that to be a fact.
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Gabriel Caetano: Patrick found
the motivation he needed to
go out and run from surviving.
Essentially from surviving
himself, surviving his own body.
And from surviving grief.
And we'll have to talk about
like this great stories of,
you know, uh, I went and
decided that I was going
to be run there and I won
a lot of races and stuff.
And that's fine.
They are fine.
But sometimes we also come
from this place of, you know,
I got to either do something
about my life about my health.
Or I'll die.
And that is an important
aspect of human experience too.
So without further ado, let's
listen to the highlights
that are brought to you today
Patrick Loera: And in
2018, I was having chronic
headaches back pain.
I was having leg issues and I
love basketball, but I couldn't
play basketball anymore because
things are starting to hurt.
You know, these little
things I couldn't get up
in the morning without,
with some really bad backs.
So I went to the doctor one
day because I was having
some chronic headaches and he
said, they're going to have
to make some choices here.
You know, you are obese.
Now at this point I was, what
about 255 And he said, you're
going to have to make some
choices because it's just going
to get worse with us here.
And I mean, for a five,
seven Mexican dude who loves
tortillas and beer and, you
know, everything and fried
foods, you know, I, it was
difficult to make some changes.
But I committed, you know,
so that day I went home
and I said, you know what?
I need to step up my game.
So I stopped drinking alcohol.
Boom.
That was the first thing.
First thing gone and
then moved on from there.
It took me a couple of days
before I decided to go out
for a run just to get my head
clear and, and body kind of
thinking it was in shape.
And I still remember
that first run.
It was, it was me the night
before preparing all my
clothes as if I was going
out for a race, got my iPod
set up, you know, a nice
little actual track playlist.
And then I set out that the
next morning, you know, I
thought I was going to get up
at 6:00 AM and go for a run.
It ended up being nine.
And I finally dragged myself
out and ran down the street.
I made it to the end of
the block and I was gassed.
Kevin Chang: there.
Yeah.
We've all been there.
Bertrand Newson: All been there.
Kevin Chang: I mean,
the important thing is
that you started, right?
Yeah.
Patrick Loera: Yeah.
Yeah.
So I started out and I
walked back home and, and
that day my legs were sore.
The next day I was sore
and it's kind of funny, you
know, comparing it to today.
But I went out the next day,
again, eight out of this time, I
wanted to try to run two blocks,
but it was still that block.
So I said, okay, this
week, I'm just going to
run up and down the street.
That's it.
Two weeks later I finally made
it, you know, I'm down the
block and around the block.
And it really took me about,
I don't know, about three
weeks probably to run a
full mile without stopping.
You know, my, my back
was kind of hurting.
My legs had started to
hurt a little bit more and
ice was my best friend.
I was in stretching at
that point and just kept
going, just kept moving on.
And for me that was
the beginning of
running right there.
And I thought, I feel good.
You know, I'm a month in
two months in and I feel
good so far, so good.
You know, let's just keep going.
That's when things
kind of changed for me.
My aunt Alaina had passed
away in April from cancer.
She lost the fight and she had
been struggling with it for,
for years up to that point.
And she didn't smoke.
You know, she was a wonderful
woman, you know, as healthy
as can be at one point,
but she caught cancer.
Somehow it was lung cancer and
it just finally took control.
So in April of of
2018, we lost her.
And then about a month
later, I lost my grandma.
And so just two really
big hits in my life.
And, and I had just
started running.
So running for me became that,
that outlet, that way to kind of
soothe my nerves and to get over
some of these things that, you
know, like anger, for instance,
I had this just this, you
know,building rage inside of me.
And I don't know if it was
from stuff, from not drinking
anymore or from not having,
you know, comfort food.
We'll say.
But it was just this
ongoing rage that I couldn't
get out without running.
So then I became addicted,
I guess you could say.
Cause whenever I start to feel
this, you know, sort of urge,
particularly after driving home
from the bay area traffic, I
would jump in, you know, on rent
it, just go down the block, you
know, and try to run it out.
And I did and I got
home and I was calm.
I was, I felt great.
And it also helped me deal
with a lot of that, that
loss, you know, the grieving
that I had going on in me.
And that's when I decided
to use that as, as my why.
My aunt Elaina was, was big in
the church and she would send me
daily, daily prayers every day.
And I, and I saved
all of those prayers.
So I held onto them whenever,
you know I highlighted them
in my, in my Bible as well.
And I started using those.
And, and reading those every
time I'd go out for a run.
And then I just, I
just kept moving.
You know, I've used that
that was my fuel to get up
every mind to keep going.
And then when it
started to hurt, I would
say, you know what?
This is nothing compared to
what she had to go through.
She's in heaven right now.
She's looking down at me and
she's probably yelling at me
saying, go, you can do it.
You know, you have the
ability to run, so run
and, and get it out.
And one of the things
that she always would
tell me was just be happy.
She was one of the first
women in my life that
showed me unconditional
love, just to be happy.
You know, didn't need
anything else in life or,
you know, just be happy.
And so that's what I did.
And when I ran, it
made me happy then.
And so I fought
through the pain.
I fought through the,
you know, the struggling
of all these different
issues and kept moving on.
Gabriel Caetano: Devin
Lopez is so knowledgeable.
You really know this stuff
. And he's a, an example of the
people out there who really
know how to do their thing,
who have the experience who
have the knowledge who have
not only the practice, but
they have like the technical,
knowledge to back it up.
So let's listen to Devin
Lopez telling us how he
got involved with sport.
The start of what would
eventually become him
being an Olympian.
This interview his grades.
He also talks a lot
about his shortcomings.
And, I mean, it's, it's golden.
Go check it out.
Kevin Chang: Devin.
Tell the audience a little
bit about your background,
how you found fitness.
Devin Lopez: My fitness journey,
I'd say started pretty far back.
I was always into athletics
growing up, so I think since
like elementary school time,
I've been doing things like
soccer and baseball, playing
football as I got older.
So that's kind of what
definitely, I think nudged me
towards this field, in this
career path, probably wasn't
until like high school time
that I actually participated
in doing some coaching, helping
like youth groups and stuff
like that with wrestling and
football, and then the camp.
So we would hold how my
high school in Los Gatos.
So after that, I eventually
started working at a gym,
doing some front desk duties,
and that's kind of what
ultimately like kind of
hooked me in there as I was
working there, I eventually
became a trainer, started
teaching CrossFit classes and
working with PT clients there.
When I was back in probably
like 2009, at least when the
PT journey started and the
group fitness classes started
at that point ever since
then, it's kind of been a
history, but my specialties
and kind of where I've put a
lot of focuses a little more
into like strength, sports.
obviously I coached
CrossFit by do a lot of
work with powerlifters and
Olympic lifters, but also
train, you know, just your
everyday person as well.
I mean, I have clients that
are, you know, working for
Apple or working for their own,
uh, their own house, cleaning
business and stuff like that.
So kind of spans know
across a wide spectrum.
So I've had all these
opportunity to work with a lot
of different people and, you
know, see a lot of different
issues and hopefully work on
fixing a lot of these different
things that come with it.
I have a lot of runners as well.
So we just have some experience
with running and, and as someone
who has never been a great
runner myself, I have tried to
put some time to learn a little
bit so I can improve my own
running abilities as best as I
can think, probably losing some
way would probably be the most
helpful thing right now, but
You get a little bit more
size when you're doing
the strength stuff so
it's that give and take.
But, but yeah, and
then that shell, that's
kinda my background.
I've always been someone
to continuing education
and continuing to try
to learn along the way.
I just got certified in
nutrition as well through
precision nutrition, but
yeah, that probably sums it up.
Kevin Chang: Yeah, . So, I mean,
I guess when you were in high
school and you started realizing
that you had a knack for helping
people, coaching people, how
has that kind of progression
into becoming a coach?
Devin Lopez: I did
go to West Valley.
I was pursuing, um, sports
medicine at West Valley college.
I will say I didn't end up
finishing my college degree.
, but I pursued a lot of,
classes in the field
for sports medicine.
My goal is to be more of like
an athletic trainer and work
with athletes kind of more on
the sports medicine side and
helping them, you know, heal up
and rehab and things like that.
But I think as I started to
work, with athletes and being
an athlete myself, I wanted to
work a little more in that side
of making people stronger and
more fit and performance wise.
So not to say that the
education journey stopped,
you know, at that point.
So I've definitely continued
to, you know, work on
getting more credentials.
And then I'm usually always
reading the least one or
two books at a time to, you
know, continue to work on
getting better in that respect
to make sure that there is
no deficit of knowledge.
Gabriel Caetano: Now this
interview with the Avalose
siblings was just such a party.
They are these extremely
fun and upbeat folks,
and I really enjoyed it.
The parts that I enjoyed the
most is them talking about how
they uplift each other and they
keep pulling each other up.
Not letting anyone fall behind,
as much as they can at least.
And that is freely.
That is really cool.
That was really fun.
There was a great talk.
That One of my favorite
bits on this conversation
and well, let's have it.
Anthony Avalos: So I ran
there in Stockholm Sweden in
2016 And then I I ran a two
59 23 which was right on the
dot from my what I was going
for so that was my first
marathon was in Stockholm.
Kevin Chang: The marathon
you qualified for
Boston, is that right?
Anthony Avalos: Yeah.
Kevin Chang: So you were
training for both the
distance and also the time.
Anthony Avalos: Being in Europe.
I like, I always have a trouble
with, with Ray and Bree because
I'm working now in kilometers.
Cause everybody here works
in Columbus per hour or
kilometers per minute.
So then I knew that based on my
kilometer per minute time that I
would end up at, I think it was
four 59, 22, and then I landed.
I landed at two 59, 23, I,
then I had a five minute 30
plus seconds that barrier
to get into Boston's office.
We were pretty sure after that
race and Ray was the first
one I talked to you that I
think you got into Boston and
then it was like, Oh, wow.
That was a big part.
Kevin Chang: Do you think
you already had the speed?
And you're just like
looking to add on the
distance and the endurance.
Anthony Avalos: I think I have
the, not necessarily the speed,
but I think I have the capacity.
Even my soccer career, I
was a runner playing soccer.
One of my biggest skillsets.
It was, of course you
can say technique or pass
or whatever, but I had
a large running capacity
when I was playing soccer.
So I was playing center,
midfield, running all
over, up and back and
these kinds of things.
So I think that translated to.
Even though that first marathon,
my training wasn't as deep as
it went to the next marathon.
I think that natural
capacity was there.
Of course I did train, I did
train enough to get it two 59.
I think a lot of that was
just a natural capacity base
that we have in our family.
That was a cool moment
to get into Boston.
And then it was like, okay,
Ray's going to Boston.
I'm going to Boston.
Bri, are you good?
Kevin Chang: That's
some pressure
Bertrand Newson: resource
marathon of all cities, San
Brea Avalos: Francisco.
I think Anthony qualified
when I was still in college,
I want to say, or like maybe
I just graduated or something,
but I knew he was training.
So there was this pressure.
And I remember my last
semester of college, they
both were like, Anthony
was soon to be qualifying.
Like he was on the track and
I was like, okay, well now
it's like, I'm not going to
be the only sibling left out.
Like this Apolis game gang
has got to stick together.
So, so I did this one
half marathon because
I went to Boise state.
And I just signed up, me
and my friends signed up
for this half marathon.
I was like, okay, if I could
really do this, like run a
really good time in this half
marathon, I'm going to for sure.
Sign up for like a Boston
qualifying marathon.
And then, so I ran the half
marathon I did really well.
And then, and then, so I was
like, all right, this is it.
Like, that was really fun.
This is I'm going to do it.
Bertrand Newson: What
was your time break?
Brea Avalos: I don't remember
my time in that half marathon.
Only
Bertrand Newson: thing.
Brea Avalos: Apparently
it was the, I forgot what
I wish I could look it up
right now to tell you what
the, this half marathon is
called, but it's famous.
So someone look it up at
some point, but it's like
one of the hardest half
marathons in like one of them
in like the United States,
because it's a strip Hill.
There's this pill in Boise
called the Gulch and it's
just like straight up.
And so it was like, it's
like one of the hardest half
marathons, like dub one of
the hardest ones in the world.
So it definitely
are in the nation.
So it definitely wasn't
for time, but definitely
plays pretty well.
And then I signed up
for San Francisco.
I don't know why thought
San Francisco would be
the best place to qualify.
I think it was the only.
Merit Boston qualifying
marathon, close enough
to the cutoff to actually
like actually sign up.
So I was like, okay, it's
going to be San Francisco.
And then I was
training quite a bit.
Like basically post-college
that whole summer.
I was like training.
I did qualify at San
Francisco marathon.
And then the last couple
miles, my first marathon, I
have this like vivid memory,
like cause San Francisco
marathon is really cool.
Cause it starts at
like 5:00 AM Bertrand.
I think he ran it that year.
You stayed at your
hotel as well, too.
So do you just like wake
up at like 3:30 AM and like
you're just crack a Dawn
and it starts at 5:00 AM
is like the first wave.
And then you just go and
then it's beautiful because
San Francisco you've
never seen it so quiet.
You've never seen San
Francisco as quiet as it was
that like, if you don't run
San Francisco marathon, so.
I was losing steam
around like mile 18.
And then I, all of a sudden
saw two of my friends pop
up, like as sidelines.
And I was like, okay,
this has given me energy.
Let's go.
And then mile 20, it's like,
it feels like you're at war
because there are grown men
crying, like almost done.
Your ears are starting to
ring, like what is going on?
Well, like, I don't know, going
to the bathroom on themselves.
It's like, and then I just
remember I'm like, and that
was like the first mile 20,
even to this day, even when
my times are getting faster
and faster mile 20 to 26,
I don't care who you are.
That is like all mental.
That is it.
And so I was like running
and then I think it was
like close to the end,
like mile 24 or something.
I just see Ray, all of
a sudden I hear great.
Let's go great.
And I don't even know if he
was allowed to do this, but he
just hopped into the race, ran
me like close to the finish.
And then I finished
and I qualified.
Kevin Chang: That's awesome.
Bertrand Newson: Love
that family support.
They're getting
out of this course.
Bring her in to the finish line.
Anthony Avalos: Bottom
line is Ray force this to
Brea Avalos: He's always
been our biggest cheerleader.
Like he's always somebody who's
like, he's like our coach.
He'll like be like encouraging
us, pushing us all the time.
And it's always in this
like, just smiley way.
Like, Hey, I think
you could do it.
Bertrand Newson: So qualified,
you know, that you're in
for the most part and race
day itself, or actually
leading up to traveling out
family, the anticipation I'm
going to the expo together.
That expo photo was fantastic.
Ray Avalos: It was awesome.
I'll let you guys tell your
little things too, but I'll just
start this one off we're there.
We're like, Oh, I'm like, Whoa,
this is my brother, and sister.
My brother is
coming from Norway.
You know, we haven't
seen him for a while,
so we're just there.
It's awesome.
We feel like weather's perfect.
So you can really enjoy Boston.
The whole family came.
My parents, my wife, I
had one kid at the time.
So Cobia, my daughter and
my mother in law was there.
My sister in law.
I think my aunt was there
as my aunt Michelle.
Yeah.
It was a family affair.
So it was a good time.
There was this good vibes.
Everything was awesome.
Matching T-shirts We were
going to get to budget, but,
you know, we had a ticket
one step further with the
team, Avalon custom gear.
Bertrand Newson: how we
Anthony Avalos: do it.
Yeah.
I mean, it was
awesome being there.
It was like, it really special
because it was like we put in
the work to get qualified and
then everybody in the work in
training, leading up to that.
So just being there was
more of a celebration.
So it was like the race
and everything we did.
Of course, we're going to
go the give it all in the
race, but it was more of a
celebration and the runs and
Ray said this before, but
Boston is one straight line
to the finish and the whole
way is packed with people.
And it's just like this awesome
thing where we're starting in
different places in different
ways, but we just all know
we're running the same places.
And then we're just like trying
our best and do, and the thing
together until you get to mile
20, then it's every man for him.
So.
I thought it was really special.
The family that was
there, my wife was there.
You can't recreate
that experience.
That was something we, we
could, we could try to do again.
We have something called coming
up in Chicago that we tried
to do this year, but we're
gonna defer to do it next year.
We both, we all
qualified for Chicago.
So we're going to try
to give that a go.
But yeah, the Boston experience
was unlike any other.
Brea Avalos: Yeah, Boston.
Oh, Boston is still my
favorite marathon and
I've run it once after all
three of us ran it as well.
But that first time, like
with all of us being there
and the entire family being
there too, it was awesome.
And especially like, I just
remember the night before
the marathon the competition
between us was insane and
there were like family members
picking sides on who is like,
it was mostly Anthony and Ray.
Cause they're in the same,
you know, like age group,
uh, Like men bracket.
And so they were just
like, who's gonna win.
Who's gonna win.
And I was just like,
and I'm like, I'm going
to my cell phone here.
Um, but it was, it was a
really, really cool experience.
And I think afterwards too,
um, we all took pictures.
Where's the, like
the commons area.
And I think the biggest
memory I have is taking those
photos afterwards together.
And just like really
like knowing that like
we all accomplished it
together and it was sick.
Cause that course is not easy.
And Boston just in general,
no matter what course I've
ever run, Boston is just like
something special because like
every, the course is just lined
with a crowd of 10 people.
And like, it just keeps on going
and going and you just see so
many different, like you see
the university and like you see
just every, every type of people
that live in, in Boston come
out and it's just like amazing.
You could never not feel energy
on that course, because there
are just so many people and the
crowd giving you so much energy.
And so it just like
pushes you forward.
Kevin Chang: Well, I hope
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